Love & Relationships in the New Paradigm
Message from Kuthumi, August 2015
One of the very unique things about this planet is that its of the very few places in which you can actually experience relationship. Relationship is the avenue to wholeness in this paradigm. Relationship is the ability to be able to observe oneself in another. Relationships are where you like to experience union. Isn’t that what coming together in a relationship is all about – feeling whole? Sometimes that is in sexual union, sometimes it is being mentally stimulated, sometimes it is having the comfort of support so you feel like …… individual. So the very social construct of planet earth has been ingeniously designed so that there is a natural motivation and drive to seek union with another and within this game of separation and duality seeking union in another is often where we get mislead. Because we like to have that feeling and we believe that it can’t be achieved on our own.
It is very useful to have a partner because they often reflect back to us what we need to see about ourselves, and yet when you are able to actually collapse within and find your union there…..then the whole planet becomes something you fall in love with. And it is more and more difficult for you to be able to dedicate your time, your energy and your attention into several relationships. So we must be very clear with you about this because there are many of you who are finding that it is becoming more and more difficult to stay in a relationship. Is this a failure on your Part? No it is not. Is it a widening of your canvas to envelope more of a relationship with the collective? Yes it is. And even those of you who are already in what you would call committed relationships you are going to start to experience a sense of disengagement- and that is not to say you that have fallen out of interest with your partner, but it does mean to say that the emotional connection that you felt with them starts to dissolve. This is not to say that it is going to put your relationship in jeopardy but what it does mean to say is that your attention and your expansiveness now is embracing the entire collective humanity, and this is something that you want to have a relationship with.
So it becomes less about a humanised way of relating, it becomes less about the one on one, less about the attention and more about the opening to accept all. And so the delightful thing about being a Master on this planet, as you can understand, is that you have the opportunity to fall in love with the entire planet. You have the opportunity to fall in love with humanity. This is what the view is like on the other side of the bridge. It is not about partnership anymore. It is about erasing the wall. It is not about trying to find your missing piece, trying to find your soul mate, trying to find your twin, because that would limit you to one portion of light that you are relating to and engaging with. When you move to the other side of the bridge the whole planet becomes your life and every person that you come across and every pair of eyes that you look into is an opportunity to fall in love again and again and again and again. And that is why we ask you to look deeply into each others eyes. Not only to help you understand how to dive into the collective, how to lose your identity, but it also teaches you how to fall in love with consciousness because that is the only thing that your love is worthy of in the New Paradigm.
You cannot limit yourself to a person, you cannot even begin to love another entity. How many of you have had experiences of falling in love, becoming enamoured, enraptured with somebody only to discover that what you thought they were is not? True? Because what you fall in love with is their identity. If you are going to fall with humanity and fall in love with consciousness what it means is you can fall in love with any person on the planet at all. Look around this room right now, look at all the eyes, look at all the faces. You could fall in love with every single being in this room. That is the nature of relationship in the New Paradigm. That is what is going to change the way humans see each other and the way humans regard their place on this planet.
That is what is going to affect the way new governments are constructed, the way industry is run, the way the economy comes together to support humanity not the other way around where humanity supports the economy. It all begins in the form of love. So falling in love is seeing what is really there.How many of you can look into a baby’s eyes or a young child’s eyes and see unconditional love? And yet how many of you are able to do that with another adult? Do you look into another adult’s eyes and see unconditional love? You do not – you avert your eyes – you look away. Many of you to protect yourselves, many of you don’t want to be exposed and there is also argument that it is not your place to dive in there – we have heard that one before! So, how many of you believe that you are ready to fall in love with everybody? You have to expose yourself to do that.So what happens to the people that you are having relationships with now?
They are still there, you love them too. But it doesn’t become about an emotional love anymore, it becomes about a much wider, lighter regard of humanity. And in the relationship that you are already in they too are a part of humanity and so you love them for it but you discontinue to be engaged with their identity. This is actually going to make your relationships more harmonious because no longer will you be concerned about their ego, their quirks, their annoyances, what they do that you can’t control, what they do that disappoints you. That would be having a relationship with their identity and you are no longer interested in this, you are only interested in consciousness so every time you go to your partner and you want to engage with their identity and it becomes an issue for you, please look into their eyes and remind yourself of what is there. Do you want to have a relationship with a mask or do you want to have a relationship with the whole planet? You ask for fulfilment – isn’t that what you all want in the New Paradigm? Well you have 7 billion people to love – it is very engaging! There was a time when I came down from the mountain just for a day. After I had seen what there was to see and understood that there was nothing that separated me from the All, I went down into a village and I came across a boy with a cow and I looked into his eyes and I saw him for who he was. At first the boy was afraid because never had anyone every looked at him in such an intimate way before. Never had anyone looked past his bedraggled clothes, the state of his cow and his shoeless feet and he knelt in front of me and he said “I know who you are”. But those very words that he said unto me was him saying that he knew who he was because as soon as you can recognise someone for who they are you actually create a shift in them. They join you in your love for humanity because when you look at them right into the eyes it disarms them, your identity (just for a moment) is gone – just for a moment. And there were many that will continue to feel that feeling again, continue to look for that feeling again because you have ignited something in them.
So how many of you when you are ready to let go of your identities and are also ready to let go of the way in which you have relationships? It is very liberating because it means that you can co-habituate without expectation, it means that everybody starts to get along because there is no restriction anymore, there is no control. And while you may suppose that this may cause some to drift or wander, what it does it actually enables them to step into their own magnificence, which means that you end up being partner of the most glorious being on the planet. How many of you see within your partner’s potential? How many of you have had partners that you see the potential in, whether or not they are still there has nothing to do with you- but we say unto you this: when you are ready to embrace all of humanity and fall in love with all of humanity you will never be partnerless again because you cannot find what you are looking for in someone else, you have to recognise it in everyone. And when you recognise it in everyone it comes to you.
August Energy Update
with Rebecca & Serapis Bey
Some very interesting things are happening this month!
As we understand it, the Earth’s crust is shifting at a 5th Dimensional level…..that is to say that we are feeling the realignment of the Earth’s crust with the Core of the planet. We haven’t yet seen the physical level of this movement, but it is likely we will in the net few months as the denser physical layers of the planet “catch up” with the energetic shift that has occurred.
The old 3rd and 4th D grid structures that enveloped the planet were principally aligned with the motion of CYCLES. So these structures were the foundation for not only the karmic system, but also for how our bodies function, the season, migratory patterns, tides, and most things that rely on a SPIN. And, when you are in a spin cycle, it can be very difficult to step out into something expansive and open ended.
When you move into 5th dimension and beyond there is a movement of energy like the Kundalini but it is not, because the Kundalini is limited to the sphere of the body and the body’s energy field. The New Energy that is arising is coming from the core of the planet and it is coming through the body. It comes up in what appears (to those who can visualise it with their sight) almost like a crystal tube, and that infrastructure has been there for a some years now. It has been there for up to 7 years. So for those of you that haven’t had a Kundalini experience for a while it is because we have been waiting for the new infrastructure to attune with the physical body, which is why many of you have had back issues on and off for the last 7 years. What is just beginning to happen at this very time on the planet, is only just happening, because now that the body is capable (through changes to the DNA) of tapping into the electromagnetic core of the planet- and having that ability adjusts the capacity of the body to accommodate it. The Core energy of the planet is now rising up through that tube, and when that happens the tube start to shatter- and when that happens the energy comes out of the spine and into the whole spectrum of your being.
So your field becomes a representation of the energetic Core of the planet.
We are doing a dramatic pause because this is very big news. It means you essentially become an extension of the Core. This is not about bringing light to the planet anymore, this is about emitting light. It is not what you have to bring, its what you have to express. So you are shattering and the movement creates a new kind of feeling in the body, because this energy is actually very cool energy. It is not heat, it is very fine and it is very cool, but it does cause discomfort in the body. It is creating jaw issues, teeth issues, muscle spasms, the bladder is affected…. because the energy is moving right up through the base of the spine and the body is taking some time to adjust. The body is not used to this type of energy- it is used to vibrational energy being felt as heat or warmth.
Aching backs and legs, vertigo, tremors and nausea are all physical symptoms of this movement.
Likewise, menstruation cycles are becoming more erratic as they move now into aligning with the internal magnetic core of the Earth, instead of the externalised pull between the Earth and the moon.
How many of you have been having disruptive cycles? Unpredictable cycles? Very heavy bleeding for some of you because you are actually now starting to move in rhythms to match the magnetic core. In the next 20 years it is going to be easier for you to be able to understand this because science is going to start to be able to say”these are the rhythms”. They are only really just starting to look at the movement. We need some good geophysicists measuring this because it is the way the body is going to be moving. It will also be affecting what you call emotional “swings”, because every time there is a new electromagnetic pulse and it rises through the body, it permeates through the emotional field. The pulse aligns the physical, mental and emotional, and you feel it. So how does it feel knowing that you are embedded into the planet’s Core?
Sleep cycles are again being interrupted during this time as the body gradually starts to align itself with these new pulse-like rhythms. Again, this is occurring in pulse-like periods of sustained sleep patterns, and then interrupted sleep, usually about 9-15 days for each.
We also want to mention the emotional detachment that many are experiencing at this time….a clear demonstration of the shift in the human energetic field into 5th dimensional frequency and beyond. The emotional body is still in operation at this time, but it is becoming more difficult to access the depth of emotion that the chakras facilitated when in full swing.
Please note however, the heightened experience of anxiety across the collective field as we move away from personal emotion and into the sensory experience of the human collective. You can certainly feel it, but important to remember that its not yours…..it belongs to the collective history of humanity on the planet. Why can you feel it? Because you are moving though it as you expand into multidimensionality. It is the doorway to beyond…..
Associated Physical Symptoms-
nausea, vertigo, aching legs, blurred vision, loss of sleep cycles, tremors in the body, increased anxiety levels, emotional detachment, non-cyclical menstruation patterns.